Last week an orthodox Jewish woman posted the following on Reddit.com:
I am a lesbian marrying a gay man. We are out to each other and our closest friends. We both grew up in religious, traditional communities so we decided this was best for us. We both travel a lot so we are able to "explore" outside of the marriage. Ask away...
Edit: we are doing this to stay connected to our community and our traditional (Orthodox Jewish) families.
Edit: to be clear, we are both seeing other people outside our relationship. We are out to close friends. I came out to my parents a while ago so technically they know but think that I have "changed".